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Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Halloween

I went to my youngest son's last Halloween parade at Our Lady of Peace. He dressed up as a bottle of shampoo. They had a bathtub theme and he stole the show with his dancing. After school he went to a party at one of his classmate's house and stayed until about 8:00 p.m. My oldest son met some friend's and they trick or treated and ended up at one of his friend's houses. They both said they had a great Halloween. We had about a dozen trick or treaters.

Dreams For The Future

"I like the dreams for the future better than the history of the past." - Thomas Jefferson

Monday, October 30, 2006

Failure To Launch


I watched the DVD "Failure To Launch."

Synopsis

Tripp (Matthew McConaughey), 35, has never been able to leave the nest. He’s always had some reason or other, but now, his desperate parents have had enough. They hire the gorgeous and talented girl of his dreams Paula (Sarah Jessica Parker) to get him to move out of the house. Zoeey Deschanel is Kit, Paula's roommate. She's great.

The Seeds You Plant

"Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant." - Robert Louis Stevenson

Sunday, October 29, 2006

Courage

"Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen." - Winston Churchill

Saturday, October 28, 2006

Unhappy Customers

"Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning." - Bill Gates

Friday, October 27, 2006

Worst Use Of Time

"Those who make the worst use of their time are the first to complain of its brevity." - Jean de la Bruyere

Burn Factor


I finished reading "Burn Factor" by Kyle Mills.

ABOUT THE BOOK

Bright, young, and ambitious, Quinn Barry desperately wants to be an FBI agent, even as she programs databases in the basement of the J. Edgar Hoover Building. But Quinn's career and her life are about to change wildly. Testing a new program, Quinn's computer savvy turns up a mysterious DNA link among five gruesome murders. A link that the old FBI system had been carefully programmed to miss. A link that nearly costs Quinn her job, and soon, her life. Pitted against a conspiracy of unimaginable proportions, Quinn will match wits against powerful government forces that will use any means necessary to keep their dirty secrets hidden secrets that will land her in the clutches of a sadistic, brilliant madman who holds the key to it all.

Thursday, October 26, 2006

One Life For Each Of Us

"There is just one life for each of us: our own." - Euripides

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Conditions

"Conditions are never just right. People who delay action until all factors are favorable are the kind who do nothing." - William Feather

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Stand For Something

"If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything." - Steve Bartkowski

Monday, October 23, 2006

Oak Tree

"Every oak tree started out as a nut who stood its ground." - Anonymous

Sunday, October 22, 2006

Change

"When you are through changing, you are through." - Bruce Barton

Saturday, October 21, 2006

Click


We watched the DVD "Click" with Adam Sandler and Kate Beckinsale. It reminded me of "Mr. Destiny" and "It's A Wonderful Life."

Synopsis

Michael Newman (Adam Sandler) is a family man whose busy career as an architect doesn't leave much time for his wife, Donna (Kate Beckinsale), and two kids. Unable to figure out which of his many remotes turns on the television, he goes shopping for a universal remote and finds the perfect device through Morty (Christopher Walken), who gives him a one-of-a-kind remote with magical powers. With each click, Michael is able to control his career and personal life. But complications arise when the remote starts to overrule his choices.

Does What You Do Please God?

"When you do what you please, does what you do please God?" - Unknown

Friday, October 20, 2006

Letting Go

"Although some think it's holding on that makes one strong, sometimes it's letting go." -Anonymous

The Beginning

"The beginning is the most important part of any work." - Plato

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Courage

"Courage is the art of being the only one who knows you're scared to death." - Earl Wilson

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

Ain't Bragging

"It ain't bragging if you can do it." - Dizzy Dean

Clerks


I watched the DVD "Clerks"

Synopsis

Dante Hicks is a clerk at a local convenience store in New Jersey. On one particular Saturday morning, he gets called in on his day off. Once there, he must deal with multiple problems. The shutters outside won't open. His ex-girlfriend, whom he is still in love with, is getting married. His girlfriend, who bugs him about starting college, has revealed certain stuff about her past. His boss hasn't come in to take his place. He has a hockey game at 2 o'clock. Another ex has died, and today's the last day he can go to her wake. He must deal with customers that aren't so intelligent. His friend, Randal, a clerk at the video store next door, is even less dedicated to his job than Dante, and is always bothering Dante's customers. Jay and Silent Bob hang outside the store.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Splendid Torch

"Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got a hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations." - George Bernard Shaw

Monday, October 16, 2006

Begin Dreaming Awake

"The moment one begins dreaming-awake, a world of enticing, unexplored possibilities opens up. A world where the ultimate audacity becomes a reality... That's the time when man's definitive adventure begins. The world becomes limitless with possibilities and wonder."
- Carlos Castenada

Friends

"Friends are relatives you make for yourself." - Eustache Deschamps

Sunday, October 15, 2006

Rising Every Time We Fall

"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." — Nelson Mandela

Good And Bad Acts

"Good and bad acts have a "ripple" effect—they set off a chain reaction of consequences, both positive and negative. No act is an act in isolation." - John Ronner

Final Game

My youngest son played his final game of youth football. They lost to St. Cletus 39 to 6. He played both ways on the defensive and offensive lines. They played on the Hinsdale South varsity football field. The temperature was 54 and cloudy. He toughed it out for four years and became a good football player. I worked the chains for all the home games and the final game.

Saturday, October 14, 2006

The Art Of Being Wise

"The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook." - William James

Friday, October 13, 2006

Film Geek


I watched the DVD "Film Geek." The cover compared it to "Napoleon Dynamite." It wasn't as funny.

Synopsis

Film Geek is the story of Scotty Pelk (Melik Malkasian), a socially inept video stork clerk who gets fired from his job and becomes a sensation as an online film critic. When he is not at work, he spends most of his time serving as webmaster for his movie review website which hardly gets any traffic, masturbating, and obsessively watching movies alone in his apartment. The rest of the time he pathetically lusts after the bratty Kaitlin and and the icy-blonde Cindy who both despise him. Being as utterly clueless as he is he continually pursues them despite their rejection of him. In one of the funniest scenes in the whole movie life hits the bottom of the barrel for Scotty when he is fired from his job at the video store. He goes crazy running about the store turning everything into chaos. Despite the low point Scotty has reached it also turns out to be a turning point when he meets the captivating Niko. (Tyler Gannon) Niko is a cool, Portland-hipster who loves movies almost as much as he does. Unlike everyone else in his life she doesn't mind discussing them with him and connecting with him in general despite his nerdy ways. Scotty soon realizes that he might just have met the love of his life. One of the main problems is that her scummy boyfriend just isn't going to let go so easily.

Free Fall


I finished reading "Free Fall" by Kyle Mills.

ABOUT THE BOOK

Special Agent Mark Beamon has a plan. By slurring that one key word 'was,' he can obscure the fact that he has been suspended, and use the FBI against itself to solve the toughest, most twisted case of his career. It's bold. It's dangerous. It's the kind of maverick operation that has made him both the Bureau's best agent and its least-likely-to-succeed screwup. A top-secret FBI file buried in an anonymous government warehouse is missing. Code named Prodigy, the operation was the brainchild of J. Edgar Hoover, who created it to use against his potential enemies. It encompasses everyone in Washington, from JFK to this year's presidential candidate, David Hallorin. The unlucky grad student who uncovered Prodigy is dead, and now his girlfriend is on the run, accused of a hideous murder.The only man everyone agrees can find the young woman and turn up the explosive document is 'off-duty.' After he revealed embarrassing government illegalities during his previous investigation, the FBI has turned on Mark Beamon and is threatening him with criminal prosecution. He knows better than anyone that this case is his last shot to save his career and his country. Tracking her down will turn out to be the most demanding case Beamon's ever faced for the young woman is a professional rock-climber and can drop out of sight anywhere in the world. As it becomes clear that he isn't the only one looking, Beamon begins to ask himself if he might be better off failing this time. Even if he does find her and the file, who will he be able to trust when the FBI itself is under suspicion?Mark Beamon is playing for the highest stakes this time. If he blows this one, his career is over—and his prison term begins...

Thursday, October 12, 2006

A Simple Twist Of Fate


I watched the DVD "A Simple Twist of Fate" with Steve Martin. I enjoyed it.

Synopsis

A miserly small-town hermit, Michael McCann (Steve Martin), who hoards his wealth in the form of a rare coin collection. When his coins are stolen, McCann is ruined, but then he discovers an abandoned baby girl on his doorstep. Although he doesn't know it, the girl, whom McCann names Mathilda, is the illegitimate daughter of a prominent local politician, John Newland (Gabriel Byrne). Raising Mathilda has a profound effect on McCann, who emerges from his self-imposed exile and becomes an excellent, creative father. Mathilda grows up to be an intelligent, attractive girl, friendly with Newland and his wife (Laura Linney). When the Newlands learn that they cannot have children, John confesses his secret and embarks on a custody battle with McCann to regain guardianship of his daughter. The location of McCann's long-lost coins has a powerful impact on the proceedings, however.

Polysyllabic Spree


I finished reading "Polysyllabic Spree" by Nick Hornby. I think I 've read every book of his now.

ABOUT THE BOOK

A Review by Charles Taylor

Nick Hornby's new collection of his essays from the Believer, the literary magazine is named in homage to the rock collective the Polyphonic Spree, who dress in choir robes and perform feel-good, orchestral pop. It's Hornby's gentle way of tweaking the magazine's earnestness. When he writes that the Believer staff's promise of a night on the town in New York resulted in their dragging him to a two-and-a-half-hour reading of the nominees for the National Book Critics Circle, you mourn for Hornby and his evening. Sometimes Hornby and the Believer butt heads. He writes in one column that he and the magazine's editors reach an agreement "that if it looks like I might not enjoy a book, I will abandon it immediately, and not mention it by name." Listed at the top of that column are "Unnamed Literary Novel" and "Unnamed Work of Nonfiction." A book critic I know, someone not at all given to meanness, once confessed to me that she felt guilty when panning a book because the writer had gone to "all that work." I told her that she had gone to a lot of work as well, "the work of turning the pages." Reading a book you don't like is miserable toil; the sensible thing to do is abandon it and find something you enjoy. But a critic has to read all the way to the end - unless you believe reviews should only be positive.
It's true that critics often do their best work when they get to write on what they love. And there's no point in knocking a small book that isn't getting any attention from the press or any publicity from its publisher. But a critic should be free to say honestly that something is bad, how bad it is and why it's bad. Even when that is gently done, it doesn't make friends, and it doesn't honor hard work or good intentions that, if the result isn't up to snuff, count for bupkis. The Believer has made space for good critics. Where it deserves credit for bucking a trend that is harming contemporary criticism isn't in its attitude toward negative reviews but in the freedom it has given Hornby for his column. The Believer has allowed Hornby to write about whatever he's reading, whether it's the hot new novel, a classic he wants to reread or some obscure title he has always meant to get around to. This is important for two reasons. Unlike critics in any other art, it's possible for book reviewers to write piece after piece without talking about what people are actually reading. A book critic free to write about classics, old favorites, new books or whatever stands a better chance of connecting with more readers than someone who's just striving to keep up with what comes down the literary poop-chute. Second, Hornby is writing about the day-to-day process of being readers as most of us practice it - not following some neat scheme but reading without premeditation, going higgledy-piggledy from one subject to another, based on whim, recommendation, chance. The result is less a column to read for insight into any one book (though there is that sometimes) than a column in which to recognize the habits that bind readers together, no matter the differences in what they read. That recognition starts with the two lists that headline every Hornby column: "Books Bought" and "Books Read." Sometimes entries in the former end up on the latter that month, a few months later or not at all. Anyone who buys more books than he or she can read (i.e., any reader), and who then lets those acquisitions hang around for months or years, will look at those lists and sense a kindred spirit. (The surest way to spot a nonreader: someone who comes into your house, looks at your books and asks, "Have you read all these?") Hornby is terrific on the haphazard way we're led to books. An example: He's a big fan of the Philadelphia band Marah. (They figured in his wonderful New York Times Op-Ed column last May about what it feels like for a pop fan to fall out of sync with contemporary music.) Marah's latest album, "Twenty Thousand Streets Under the Sky," takes its name from a trilogy of novels written in the 1930s by English writer Patrick Hamilton. Thus is Hornby led to Hamilton. For me, it doesn't end there. I had come across Hamilton's name last year, in reading B.R. Myers' "A Reader's Manifesto" (one of the only pieces of cultural criticism of the past few years that really matters), and ordered both Twenty Thousand Streets Under the Sky and Hamilton's later Hangover Square from Amazon U.K. When they came, I looked them over, kept them on my night table for a few days, then shelved them and forgot about them. When I came upon Hamilton's name in this book, I got out Hangover Square and found, just as my Penguin edition blurbed, "one of the great novels of the 20th century." (Suffice it to say that Hamilton writes about street life with an honesty and lyricism, an absence of sentimentality or fetish for squalor, that should make nearly every hard-boiled writer hang his or her head in shame.) That is the circuitous process by which we come to books. And with the supermarket nature of the modern book megastores impeding the interaction of customers, and seeming to offer so much that nearly any choice you make is going to feel wrong, we need to value all the quirks of fate and coincidence that lead us to particular books. Hornby isn't always on target. Some of his insights are the sort of silly things we say and later have the good sense to retract, as when Hornby realizes he was foolish to claim that a good literary experience trumps most other good cultural experiences. He does not, sadly, back down from this really dumb statement: "Usually, books have gone out of print for a reason, and that reason is they're no good, or, at least, of very marginal interest. (Yeah, yeah, your favorite book of all time is out of print and it's a scandal. But I'll bet you any money you like it's not as good as The Cathcer in the Rye, or The Power and the Glory, or anything else still available that was written in the same year.)" I'm not the person to whom you should make an argument using J.D. Salinger as a measure of greatness ("'sincere" in the manner of an advertising man's necktie," said Mary McCarthy of Franny and Zooey in 1962). But does Hornby really believe that nothing great goes out of print? The New York Review of Books has established an entire imprint dedicated to books that have gone out of print, and in just the last year they've given us, among others, Rose Macaulay's Th eTowers of Tebizond and John Horne Burns' The Gallery, great books both. Perhaps, in 20 or 30 years, when Hornby's best novel so far, How To Be Good, is out of print, it would be worth asking him if he still believes this? (He may be modest enough not to think that prospect is any big deal.) What's most valuable about this collection, though, is that Hornby, by dint of his sensibility and the variety of his choices, shows that the distinction still made between reading for the sake of "enrichment" (as that Harold Bloom insists upon) and reading for pleasure is a phony divide. After encountering Dennis Lehane's novels, Hornby wonders why no one has ever recommended the writer to him, and answers, "Because I don't know the right kind of people, that's why. In the last three weeks, about five different people have told me that Alan Hollinghurst's The Line Of Beauty is a work of genius" - he's right, he doesn't know the right kind of people - "and I'm sure it is ... I'm equally sure, however, that I won't walk into a lamppost while reading it, like I did with Presumed Innocent all those years ago ... I'm happy to have friends who recommend Alan Hollinghurst, really I am. They're all nice, bright people. I just wish I had friends who could recommend books like Mystic River, too. Are you that person? Do you have any vacancies for a pal?" (It's your lucky day, Hornby. What I like about that passage is that it's not an either/or opposition. There's no assuming that someone who walks into a lamppost because of a thriller is not going to have time for a literary novel. And, in my experience, there are very few readers who are either/or sorts of readers. In a stroke typical of Hornby's approach, his best insight into the insularity of the literary mindset comes in an aside prompted by a quote from Janet Malcolm's Reading Chekov, a book Hornby likes. Malcolm wrote: "Everyone has seen a Cherry Orchard or an Uncle Vanya, while very few have ever heard of The Wife, or In the Ravine." To which Hornby responds, "Perhaps this isn't the right time to talk about what 'everyone' means here, although one is entitled to stop and wonder at the world in which our men and women of letters live - not 'everyone' has seen a football match or an episode of Seinfeld, let alone a nineteenth-century Russian play." Malcolm was, of course, pointing out that Chekhov's plays are better known than his short fiction, and chose a clumsy way of saying that. But the assumption behind that clumsiness deserves comment. Why is it that those who have the most vested in encouraging people to read are often the ones least suited for the job? Saying that "everyone" knows Chekhov is, whether intentionally or not, one of those statements guaranteed to make people feel out of it, to make them feel that culture is a closed circuit to which they can find no point of entry. I'm not advocating the opposite, that idiotic state of affairs where you assume that no one knows anything and even common cultural references have to be identified, for fear of insulting the reader. What Hornby does so beautifully here is to assume the intelligence of his readers, and to obliterate the literature/pleasure divide by acting, sensibly, as if it didn't exist. The implicit message of these columns is that nothing that is not pleasurable has a right to be considered art. It certainly doesn't have a right to your time

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Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Want More Luck

"I’ve found that luck is quite predictable. If you want more luck, take more chances. Be more active. Show up more often." - Brian Tracy

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Fun With Dick And Jane


I watched the DVD "Fun With Dick And Jane" with Jim Carrey and Tea Leoni.

Synopsis

Dick (Jim Carrey) and Jane (Téa Leoni) are in love and living the American dream until one day it becomes an American nightmare. When the company Dick works for becomes involved in an Enron-like scandal and he is confronted with the prospect of losing everything, Dick and Jane are forced to bag, borrow and steal to get it all back.

Rising Phoenix


I finished the book "Rising Phoenix" by Kyle Mills. I realized when I finished that I had read it before in 1994.

ABOUT THE BOOK

Special Agent Mark Beamon is a maverick. His open disdain for the FBI's rules and Directors has exiled him to a no-profile post in the boondocks. But when a shadowy right-wing group starts flooding America's emergency rooms with dead and dying, Beamon is summoned back to Washington. Teamed with an icily efficient female field agent, he is given the thankless task of stopping the slaughter even though millions of Americans secretly approve of it. As the body count rises, Beamon realizes there is something eerily familiar about his adversary, reminding him of the coldest killer he ever encountered not a criminal but a law enforcement colleague. And for the first time, he wonders why he was chosen for this assignment.

Never Mistake Knowledge For Wisdom

"Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living, the other helps you make a life." - Sandra Carey

Monday, October 09, 2006

Self-Trust

"Self-trust is the first secret of success." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Sunday, October 08, 2006

Be Kind

"Be kind to unkind people - they need it the most." - Unknown

Saturday, October 07, 2006

Remove The Word Problem

"Remove the word “problem” from your vocabulary and replace it with “challenge”. Life will suddenly become a lot more interesting and enjoyable." - Donna Watson

Friday, October 06, 2006

The Ice Harvest


I watched the DVD "The Ice Harvest" with John Cusack and Billy Bob Thornton. It was directed by Harold Ramis.

Synopsis

It's Christmas Eve in rainy, icebound Wichita, Kansas, and this year Charlie (John Cusack) just might have something to celebrate. Charlie, an attorney for the sleazy businesses of Wichita, and his unsavory associate, the steely Vic Cavenaugh (Billy Bob Thornton), have just successfully embezzled $2,147,000 from Kansas City mob boss Bill Guerrard (Randy Quaid). Even so, the real prize for Charlie would be the stunning Renata (Connie Nielsen), who runs the Sweet Cage strip club. Charlie's fondest Christmas wish is to slip out of town with Renata. But, as daylight fades and a storm whirls, everyone from Charlie's drinking buddy Pete Van Heuten (Oliver Platt) to the local police begin to wonder just what exactly is in Charlie's Christmas stocking. For Charlie, the 12 hours of Christmas Eve are filled with nonstop twists and turns, both on the ice and off.

Storming Heaven


I finished reading "Storming Heaven" by Kyle Mills. I was looking for something to read and pulled it off my bookshelf. I'll be reading more books by this guy.

ABOUT THE BOOK

Mark Beamon, the maverick FBI agent introduced in Rising Phoenix, has been given one last chance by the Bureau. Shunted into a job running a sleepy Southwest office, Beamon is under strict orders to shape up and do things 'by the book' the FBI way. There's only one problem: Crime doesn't go by the book.Flagstaff, Arizona, is shocked when a millionaire auto dealer and his wife are brutally murdered in an apparent botched robbery and kidnapping. It's one of the bloodiest, clumsiest crimes Special Agent Beamon has ever seen. The missing teenage daughter, Jennifer Davis, who stands to inherit everything, is the prime suspect. Did she and her boyfriend fake her abduction?The boyfriend has an alibi, and Beamon has a feeling. Something is not right about this case. With his new assistant in tow, and his new girlfriend all but forgotten, Beamon follows a trail of faint clues and strong hunches that lead from a remote Unabomber-type cabin in the Utah mountains, through the labyrinthine headquarters of the cultlike Church of the Evolution, into the shadowy, interlocking boardrooms of a high-tech communications empire. Beamon has tossed the book aside again, and Washington is furious; for the church has powerful friends, as do companies like Vericomm and TarroSoft. Then a bombshell is dropped. The 'murder' of Jennifer's parents was a double suicide. But why? What did the Davises gain by killing themselves while their daughter watched? Are their deaths part of a morbid plot designed to bring America to its knees? Either way, time is running out, and Beamon's career not to mention a young girl's life is on the line.

Ice Sculpting

"I recently took up ice sculpting. Last night I made an ice cube. This morning I made 12, I was prolific." - Mitch Hedberg

Have A Dream

"If you don’t have a dream, how are you going to make a dream come true?" - Oscar Hammerstein

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Start Moving

"You are successful the moment you start moving toward a worthwhile good." - Charles Carlson

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

Gratitude

"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it." - William Arthur Ward

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Sky Captain And The World Of Tomorrow


I finally watched the DVD "Sky Captain And The World Of Tomorrow." I think this was the fourth time I checked it out from the library. Every other time I had to return it before I got a chance to watch it.

Synopsis

Famous scientists around the world have mysteriously disappeared and Chronicle reporter Polly Perkins (Gwyneth Paltrow) along with ace aviator Sky Captain (Jude Law) are on the investigation. Risking their lives as they travel to exotic places around world, can the fearless duo stop Dr. Totenkopf, the evil mastermind behind a plot to destroy the earth? Aided by Franky Cook (Angelina Jolie), commander of an all-female amphibious squadron, and technical genius Dex (Giovanni Ribisi), Polly and Sky Captain may be our planet's only hope.

Get Out Of The Way

"Those who say it can't be done should get out of the way of those doing it" - Chinese Proverb

Monday, October 02, 2006

Laughter

"Laughter is an instant vacation." - Milton Berle

Sunday, October 01, 2006

1001 Books To Read Before You Die

I see a lot of books about reading, books on how to read, which books to read, how to structure your life based on certain works of literature, etc. But the one I was most impressed with recently was 1001 Books You Must Read Before You Die. Not only is it pretty , but it's a rather balanced list. (You can read the list here, but I still recommend the book itself.

From http://www.bookslut.com/blog/

Successful People

Successful people possess:

Expectations. “Successful people expect the best, and they generally get it, because expectations have a way of attracting to us their material equivalent,” writes Tom Butler-Bowdon.

Tough-minded optimism. Optimism is power. Optimism is motivation. Optimism is forward-thinking. Optimism is the ability to draw something good even from failure.

Purpose. Successful people have goals. They have a vision of where they want to be.

Self-confidence. Robert Pagliarini says that successful people “believe that [their] actions will create results tomorrow.” Have confidence in your abilities.

Industry. Expect to work toward your goal. Effort expended today is in service of the Big Picture. It’s what’s at the end that matters.

Discipline. Persistence is key. A journey of a thousand miles doesn’t just begin with a single step — it’s made up of other steps just like it.

Mindfulness. Successful people are self-aware. They know their strengths and weakness. They heed intuition.

Balance. Do not neglect other aspects of your life in a single-minded pursuit of your end. Your goal is important, but it’s meaningless if you sacrifice the rest of your life to reach it.

Curiosity. Successful people seek self-improvement. They read. They take classes. They keep an open mind.

Mastery. Become skilled at whatever you do. Pursue excellence. Be the best that you can be.

Daring. To succeed, you must take risks. There is no risk by staying where you are, but there is no reward, either. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Focus. Doggedly pursue your goals and aims. Constantly review your objectives so that if you become distracted, you can get back on track.

Persistence. Do not let failures deter you from your goal. You will meet setbacks, but view these as learning experiences, not the cessation of your endeavors. Pick yourself up and move on.

Activeness. Successful people do not wait for things to happen to them; they make things happen. The only one who can achieve your goals is you.

As you work toward your goals, do not compare yourself to others. You are unique. You have your own goals. Only you can define success for your life. Challenge yourself. Think big. Dream. Strive to be your best.

Homecoming

My oldest son went to his first high school homecoming dance. He got all dressed up and met his friends at one of the girl's houses down the street from us. The girl, Alyssa was the freshman homecoming attendant. (In our day she was called the queen.) He went with a group of 4 girls and 2 other boys. His date was named Caroline. Caroline is good friend's with Alyssa. He rides the bus with Caroline and she doesn't live far from us. They had to be at the high school at 7:30 p.m. Afterwards they went to Champps in Lombard for dinner. We picked them up at 1:00 a.m. He said they had a good time.

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